I’m interested in you
Broadcast that you came exactly to Her! When you intend to come to the meeting and see “my – not my woman”, you include your assessment based on your programs and beliefs and thus deprive the meeting of sensual energy. Phrasing that I would like to create a relationship with a woman with certain qualities in the presence of a potential candidate for married life is not in the rules of relationship building. It is important to tune in to the woman and show maximum interest in her. Go to the meeting with the impulse of desire that “I want to come to exactly to Her”. Present yourself to a woman with pleasure, reveal yourself and improve in presentation. People are our mirror, look into it more often!
Give yourself to the process of communication
You and your partner met literally for an hour, communicate in the mode of “here and now”, give time to each other, talk about yourself and be interested in your partner. Don’t go into reminiscing about the past or talking about other people, talk about yourself and be genuinely interested in your partner, keeping a 50%/50% balance. When you meet in a balance of communication, you generally leave a good impression of each other.
Do not talk a lot about your children, especially not about how much time you devote to them. At first glance, as if you position yourself as a good father, but in fact for a woman – your children are from another woman with whom she “unknowingly” competes. And this information causes more of an inward frustration that she will not show you, but rather she will leave with the feeling that you still have something to do with your ex-spouse.
Talk about your goals and intentions in life
If even you do not have a simple life situation not today, you should not share it with a woman. The woman expects that the man with his life tasks successfully copes on his own, having still some free resources and to support the woman. If we are talking about a true opposite sex relationship, then we are talking about a woman who wants to see a man as a support and encouragement. And your intention to support your woman is important to talk about and can be done on the first date. This way, you present yourself as a reliable and wealthy man. Talk better about your future goals and aspirations, paint attractive images of your future.
Discuss past relationships
Discussing the way of family life or negative statements about previous partners especially at the first meetings is not acceptable. It is important to process all experiences, frustrations, and resentments into positive experiences and let go. When you are not flattering statements about past relationships, a woman subconsciously feels the incompleteness of your relationship and reads you as not a free man.
Where to go on a first date
In order to lay the foundation for a beautiful relationship, it is recommended that on the first date to visit places that are tied to beauty and art, such as an art gallery. First, you will have a desire to talk only about the beautiful, true creativity distracts from vanity and elevates consciousness, and secondly, you will see yourself and your companion through the prism of beauty. The energy of space has a powerful influence on human energies, thoughts and feelings.And then you will have an opportunity to talk about the beautiful and you will make a fabulous impression of each other!